The self-published edition of this book sold more than 5,000 copies Dynamic speakers: The Kanes conduct weekly workshops in New York City, frequent seminars in Germany, presentations at London?s Alternatives Center, and a weekly Internet radio show, ?Being Here? Popular subject: a spiritual relationship guide in the tradition of Eat, Pray, Love (Penguin, 2007).

Table of Contents:
Preface Acknowledgements Chapter 1: Creating the Foundation for a Magical Relationship Chapter 2: The Principles of Instantaneous Transformation Chapter 3: Discovering Your Relationship DNA Chapter 4: Recognizing Hidden Agendas Chapter 5: Don?t Tell Me What to Do! Chapter 6: Breaking the Cycle of Unfulfilling Relationships Chapter 7: You Are Not the Story of Your Life Chapter 8: The One Who Listens Chapter 9: The Gender War Chapter 10: Relationship Splitters Chapter 11: Sex and Intimacy Chapter 12: The Art of Listening Chapter 13: When to Get Out An Interview with Ariel and Shya Kane Index