Like it or not, divorce is often unavoidable. But it doesn't have to destroy relationships between ex-spouses, nor among parents and their children. The Intelligent Divorce is a groundbreaking blueprint for negotiating the complicated and sometimes unbearable landscape of spousal dissolution with grace, compassion, and wisdom. Developed over the course of a decade and based on hundreds of case studies, The Intelligent Divorce teaches healthy and effective communication strategies intended to ensure personal integrity while committing parents to protecting the innocence of their children. It's a must read if you're getting divorced and you have children. Inside The Intelligent Divorce: -Your Child's Bill of Rights -When, What, and How to Tell the Kids -Strategies for Parenting When Under Stress -Raising Responsible Children during a Divorce -How to Spot Developmental Risks with Your Children -The Ten Commandments of an Intelligent Divorce -Plus a Bonus Chapter: "Creating a Parenting Agreement"